Hey, I’m Nyla — a Certified Psychosynthesis Coach, writer and guide for those navigating liberated relationships and emotional growth.

I’m not a sex educator or a kink guide — I’m a Coach who works with the emotional side of exploration. The part where self-doubt creeps in, where boundaries get blurred or where old fears surface in new experiences.

My journey into sex-positive spaces, including ethical non-monogamy and open relating, began with a deep inner conflict. I wanted to explore new dynamics, but my body held fear and my mind carried years of inherited conditioning. I didn’t just need information — I needed emotional tools to feel safe, clear and grounded in real-time. Becoming Unbound was my way through.

Before I stepped into this work, I spent two decades in the business world — leading teams, co-founding social ventures and designing leadership development programmes for senior leaders. That path taught me that people are longing to feel more connected, more seen, more aligned. Now, I bring that same care, clarity and systems-thinking into my coaching and workshops.

I support women and men to explore intimacy, desire and connection with confidence, clarity and self-trust. I offer practical tools, deep emotional presence and a space to grow without pressure or performance.

This work isn’t about becoming someone else.
It’s about becoming more you — and feeling safe in that truth.