Welcome, I'm Nyla
I’m a Certified Psychosynthesis Coach and guide for those navigating the expansive terrain of sex-positive relationships, liberated intimacy and emotional embodiment. But more than that, I’m someone who has walked this path myself.
My work is rooted in lived experience. I’ve felt the liberation and the vulnerability of stepping into sex-positive and non-traditional relational spaces. I’ve navigated the thrill of possibility, the fear of rejection and the deep desire to be seen, loved and safe while discovering what desire truly means for me.
I quickly realised that navigating these spaces isn’t just about knowledge, it’s about emotional clarity, nervous system safety and inner integration. That’s where most resources stop short, and where my work begins.
Through it all, I’ve come to believe this: your wholeness is not something to earn, it’s something to remember.
Why I Do This Work
So many of us carry the weight of expectation, from culture, gender, upbringing or old relationships. We enter new spaces hoping to feel free, only to find ourselves second-guessing, performing or dimming our light.
This work is about unlearning all of that. It’s about making space for your full self: the one who wants pleasure and boundaries, who craves connection and autonomy, who is learning to honour both fear and curiosity.
I work with the emotional side of that journey. The tender, messy, human part. The moments when self-doubt creeps in, boundaries blur or old fears surface in new experiences. This is where integration happens, through nervous system grounding, embodied awareness and learning to trust yourself in real time.
I’m not a sex educator or kink instructor. I’m a guide for the inner work, the part that helps you feel grounded, clear and emotionally safe.
My Approach
Before I stepped into this work, I spent two decades in the business world, leading teams and start-up ventures, & designing leadership development programmes for senior leaders. That experience shaped how I now guide others — with clarity, presence and a systems lens on the inner world.
Drawing on that foundation, I now blend Psychosynthesis Coaching, embodiment work, and grounded emotional support to help you feel more confident and connected in your relationships. In practice this means:
Working with your sub-personalities — inner parts like the People Pleaser, Inner Critic or Fearful Protector — so you can understand your patterns and lead from self-awareness
Building emotional clarity and nervous system awareness, so your boundaries and desires feel clear and embodied
Reconnecting you to your intuition and body wisdom, so your choices reflect who you truly are — not who you’ve been taught to be
Creating space to explore sex, love and self-expression from a place of inner alignment, not performance or self-abandonment
This isn’t surface-level advice, it’s the inner toolkit that helps you navigate intimacy, non-monogamy or liberated relationships with clarity, confidence and self-trust.
Who I Work With
I support people of all genders who are:
Exploring sex-positive, ENM or alternative relational spaces
Learning to communicate their needs, desires and boundaries
Reclaiming desire after people-pleasing, suppression or shame
Craving a grounded, compassionate container for inner work and emotional expansion
Many of my clients have already read the books or been to the play parties, but still feel emotionally overwhelmed or unsure how to truly integrate what they’re learning. That’s where I come in.
Wherever you are — you’re welcome.
Let’s Work Together.
If you’re feeling the pull to explore, integrate and become more deeply yourself — I’d be honoured to walk alongside you.
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